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Going away to celebrate a Tết homecoming

Update: January, 28/2018 - 09:00
Illustration by Trịnh Lập
Viet Nam News

By Thuý Bình

Tết (Lunar New Year) will always be a time for Vietnamese families to get together, pay obeisance to ancestors, the Kitchen Gods and other deities, cook special dishes, wear new clothes, present gifts, visit friends and relatives and receive special guests in the belief that they are a harbinger of good times.

But things have also changed, and will continue to change. In recent years, the traditional national holiday is no longer the usual three-day affair. It has lengthened to between a week and ten days. And this extra space has created opportunities for families to travel outward, to other places in the country and beyond, giving the festival a completely different flavour.  

Whenever changes happen, there will be people who bemoan the loss of traditions and those who embrace the opportunity to broaden their horizons.

And both sides of this “argument” carry merit.

Despite the new opportunities, many people prefer staying at home to tend to the ancestral altar, visit relatives and receive visitors. 

My relative is not one of them. A resident of Ha Noi, she has booked a tour to Japan for her four-member family. This is the second year her family has traveled abroad during the festival.  

"I’m afraid that all the tours will run out as Tết comes very close," said Lê Thanh Hằng, "It takes time to complete exit and entry formalities for travelling abroad and I don’t want to miss out," she said. 

Living with her husband’s family after marriage, Hằng had no chance to celebrate Tết the way she wanted, in the initial years. She had to help her mother-in-law to cook and prepare traditional dishes for ancestor worship. 

"But it’s over. My husband is too busy at the office and my children have an even tighter schedule with their studies. So the long holiday on Tết is a very good time for my family to travel," Hằng said. 

Nguyễn Hiền Phương, another resident of the capital city, also wants to take her family to other places. Her family has already travelled to many northern mountainous provinces such as Hà Giang, Lào Cai and Yên Bái during the festival.

But this year, Phương will travel to Phú Quốc Island in the southern province of Kiên Giang. “Hopefully, we will not only have time to relax, but also get to know more about culture and Tết customs in a new place.

"My family enjoyed the New Year celebration customs of the Mông ethnic group when we visited Lào Cai for Tết in 2016," Phương said. "They make the bánh dày (round rice cake), instead of the bánh chưng (square-sticky rice cake) of the Kinh people."

"All of us know about bánh chưng and bánh dày which are symbolic of the sun and the moon. But now, we only prepare bánh chưng for Tết. The trip to Lào Cai helps my teenage kids know about bánh dày," she said.

Phương says her family’s trips have also been a learning experience.

"We enjoy knowing more about the different ways in which people in other areas welcome Tết, she said, referring to earlier travels within the country.

More and more people, especially the well off, are choosing to travel rather than stay at home. This does not mean that they ignore our customs. But they see no need to impose constraints on their family having a good time.

Now, it is not just young people or the nuclear family that have the choice to travel during the Tết holiday, the extended family has also jumped on the bandwagon.

Normally, Tết tours cost much higher than normal tours, but people are willing to spend that extra money. According to surveys by many tourism companies, travelling abroad has become a trend in recent years. Tours to Southeast Asian countries like Thailand, Malaysia and Singapore are favoured the most, followed by Japan, South Korea and China. 

"Of late, tourism companies have increased the tours on offer, adding new destinations abroad," said Đoàn Thị Thanh Trà, Saigontourist’s marketing and communication director. "Travelling to famous places inside and outside Việt Nam on Tết has become a trend. Many Vietnamese enjoy staying with their families to celebrate Tết at resorts far away".

As remarked earlier, there are people who see Tết as a rare chance for family members to return to their homeland. Young writer Nguyễn Ngọc Thạch feels young people not returning home from far away to meet their family during the festival is a selfish act.

"Many young people feel Tết is boring and they want to escape the traditional festival," said Thạch. "Maybe they feel happy to celebrate Tết far away their family, but they will make their parents and their relatives sad," said Thạch.

True, but we should remember that travelling during Tết with all family members in the first days of the New Year is also a good Vietnamese custom.

"My family began to travel during Tết in 2010," said Đăng Hoàng, a resident of Huế Street in Hà Nội. "My family takes off on the second day of Lunar New Year with all members, grandparents, parents and children. We even call other families, including relatives, to join us."

Hoàng, a businessman, believes in visiting pagoda and praying for a good year for his business. So he always chooses places with beautiful pagodas or temples to visit.

We don’t have to take sides, in this matter, I feel. We should welcome the tradition as well as the break from it, ensuring that the latter does not impinge or detract or undermine the former.

Tết, most of all, is a time for togetherness, cohesiveness. We should maintain that, no matter what we choose to do and how we choose to enjoy this auspicious occasion. — VNS

 

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